After a spending the past 2-3 weeks working through abuse, trauma, hurt, anger and frustration in its various forms/stages, I’m happy to announce that the view from the higher elevation of lifes mountain has presented a magnificent skyline. My girlfriend who has navigating her way through back to back drama is coming out victorious and I have pushed myself to an emotional highpoint I wasn’t sure I’d achieve.
She has closed doors, cleaned house; literally and metaphorically; and has reclaimed the woman and adult that she is and now feels better purposed and possess a refreshed and renewed outlook on her life. My heart warmed at the information she’s shared and I know there is a plethora of blessings waiting to rain down upon her from heavens clouds. Through her own ordeal, she was able to set aside time to encourage and nourish my soul/spirit in order for me to come to my own point of cleansing, which I achieved this weekend.
I spoke up on some issues that had rooted themselves into my phyche and were reaking havoc on my emotional integrity and the way I was viewing my relationship. I knew I had to heed my own words and perform my full disclosure regardless of how uncomfortable it may make either of us feel. Well, everything I said was received well, with keen interest, and yielded favourable results. We’ve come to a much better and stronger place as a result and can now move on without this hanging over our respective heads. Lesson being; we can’t fault someone for something we do not disclose.
So, here I sit with a huge smile on my face knowing that another trial has become a triumph and a problem shared became a problem; not only halved, but resolved.
That is all!